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Virginia M. Gaffney Holley

February 16, 2020

Virginia M. Gaffney Holley, 94, of Watertown passed away on February 16, 2020 at Samaritan Summit Village. Virginia's family wishes to thank the staff of Samaritan Summit Village for their compassionate and professional care of Virginia while she has been a resident since May 2016.

Virginia was born in Utica, NY on June 7, 1925, daughter of Emmett J. and Daisy R. Kennedy Gaffney. She attended Utica schools. On February 8, 1947 she married James R. Holley in Utica and James died on June 14, 1956 in Syracuse. Virginia married Eldred "Chuck" L. Holley on July 6, 1957 at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church in New Hartford. Eldred died on August 2, 1981 in Watertown, NY.

Virginia started her Real Estate career in Watertown in 1967 as a salesperson with Loretta M. Harder Real Estate and in 1971 Virginia became a Real Estate Broker establishing V. M. Holley Realty. She retired in 2003 with 36 years in real estate sales, property management and appraising. She is a Past Vice President, Past Corresponding and Recording Secretary of the Jefferson Lewis Board of Realtors. Virginia served on numerous committees for the Board of Realtors and she served on Community Bank's Advisory Board for many years.

Virginia was a very active member of St. Paul's Church in Watertown and she served on many church committees. She served for many years on the St. Paul's Church Altar Guild and the church's Vestry. She became a member of St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Brownville for the past several years.

She was a 70 year life member of the American Legion Auxiliary and was a Past Unit President of the New Hartford Auxiliary Unit 1376. Virginia became a member of the Watertown Army & Navy Unit 61 in 1966 after moving to Watertown with her family.

Virginia enjoyed decorating and spending time outdoors. She enjoyed camping in the Adirondack Mountains and in the Thousand Islands. She especially enjoyed spending time with her family and many friends at her summer cottage on Sherwin's Bay at Pillar Point. She had a passion for the Preforming Arts and she supported many local musical performances.

Virginia is survived by a son, Richard J. Holley and his girlfriend, Melissa M. Ingerson, Sackets Harbor; three daughters and their husbands, Virginia M. "Ginger" and Dr. Stephen Snyder, Frankfort, Carolyn A. and Joseph Banville, Sulpher Springs, and Barbara J. and Stanley "Skip" Eldridge, Watertown; 10 grandchildren, 13 great-grandchildren and 5 great-great-grandchildren; a brother John "Jack" Gaffney, Utica; and several nieces and nephews. Along with Virginia's two husbands, she was predeceased by her infant son, James E. Holley, a daughter Deborah J. Holley, a brother Douglas E. Gaffney, a granddaughter Kristy Lynn Rose and a great-grandson Tyler Owens.

Calling Hours will be held at Cummings Funeral Service, Inc., Watertown on Thursday, February 20, from 4 to 6 PM. The funeral service will be held at St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Brownville at 11 AM on Friday February 21, with Mother Ninon Hutchinson, pastor, presiding. A spring burial in the Brookside Cemetery will follow at the family's convenience.

In lieu of flowers the family request donations be made in support of the American Legion Auxiliary Foundation for the Veterans Creative Arts Festival in care of the American Legion Auxiliary National Headquarters ATTN: Development Division 3450 Founders Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268-1334 or to a charity of one's choice. Online condolences to Virginia's family can be made at www.cummingsfuneral.com.


#7 David Chester 2020-03-17 08:19
Rick, I offer my condolences and prayers for you upon losing your mother. I just heard of it as I was in a Israel .
God bless.
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#6 Sandy Cross 2020-02-20 10:45
I was so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. What a blessing to have had her here for so long.. My thoughts are with you.
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#5 Lisa Lowes 2020-02-19 20:35
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed being able to provide care for her and loved her like family. She would always sing a song with me you are my sunshine and I will cherish that memory with me. RIP my little butter cup
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#4 Dr. Sarah B. Snyder 2020-02-19 18:39
I will always love you Grandma. As an active duty Flight Surgeon I always knew grandpa was my guardian angel, protecting me in two wars (Iraq & Afghanistan) and throughout the challenges as a female at West Point. Now I have two guardian angels looking out for me in heaven. I am serving as a physician currently in Alabama, but will be sending in a donation shortly to the American Legion that Grandma Holley loved in New Hartford, NY, in honor of her memory and love of the military. I am so proud of you both and always loved your “IRISH” sense of humor, as well as your generosity to others around you. You were a great role model and a strong woman! I will love you always and keep you in my heart forever, your granddaughter Major (Dr.) Sarah B. Snyder.
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#3 David & Ione Hodge 2020-02-19 10:54
Rick and Carolyn, we are saddened to learn of your mothers passing. Our prayers are with you at this time.
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#2 Cindy Alton 2020-02-19 07:44
Rick, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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#1 Keith & Sharon Rose 2020-02-19 06:50
Barb and Skip, So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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